Monday, July 21, 2008

Disinheriting A Child

You are a parent with several children and wish to disinherit one of the children. How exactly is this handled in the drafting of the last will? The bequests to family members generally fall into two categories: (a) specific bequests (i.e., "I leave my 1969 red Corvette to my brother John") and (b) residuary bequests (i.e., "I leave the rest, residue, and remainder of my estate to my children in equal shares, per stirpes"). Instead of naming, as a class, "my children" for any bequest in the will, you would identify by name each child who is a beneficiary and omit the name of the child you wish to disinherit. Finally, to show that the omission of this child from your will was intentional, it is customary to add a line similar to the following to your last will:
I acknowledge that I have a son named Brian who is not provided for in this will. It is my specific intention to not provide for Brian under the terms of my will. See A Practical Guide to Estate Planning and Administration By Michael Gau (2004) p. 37
If your last will document has a "Miscellaneous" section, you can put the above language there or, as an alternative, in the same section where the other children are named as beneficiaries. Are there provisions in the law allowing a child to petition the probate court to be added back as a beneficiary of the estate despite the will language? Absent a claim of mental incapacity on the part of the testator at the time the will was executed, the only provision of the Uniform Probate Code that comes to mind is Section 2‑302. Omitted Children. However, Section 2-302 only applies to a situation where "a testator fails to provide in his [or her] will for any of his [or her] children born or adopted after the execution of the will ... ." The intentional omission of a child is, by definition, different than a pretermitted heir. Thus, Section 2-302 would not help a child intentionally disinherited.

39 comments:

jjray said...

William F. Buckley Jr. disinherited his grandson (who was born out of wedlock to his son Christopher). According to press reports, this is the language Buckley used to disinherit his grandson named Jonathan: "I intentionally make no provision herein for said Jonathan, who for all purposes . . . shall be deemed to have predeceased me." Link.

Anonymous said...

If you are a parent and are thinking about disinheriting a child - Please think carefully about the consequences to the family in the future. He was disinherited for telling the truth while his siblings lied when their mother asked. There is now no contact between them. Towards the end she stated several times that she had changed her mind and the older son said it was taken care of - but alas - he lied again. Greed is a horrible thing.

Anonymous said...

How about this one? Provide for all your children in your will - put most of your assests into annuities and exclude one of them as beneficiaries of the annuities, essentially disinherting one of the children, but making it look like via the will that there is no disinheritance at all. Talk about deceitful! This is what happened to me - and I had no idea until both of my parents had passed away. Very little of their assests are being distributed via the will. I was shocked to find out I had been excluded from the bulk of their estate. Wish I had known before they passed as I have no idea why they did this. I really, really would like to understand why they would do something like this and now I can't ask them and find out. They never mentioned excluding me as a beneficiary to me or any of my siblings. I had a good relationship with both parents, but was the only girl in the family.

Anonymous said...

Eventually you may discover that it was a sibling behind it. I'm sorry for your loss.

Anonymous said...

To annonynous who doesn't know why they were left out of the will. Think hard. I am about to do it to my son, and I am sure he too will have no clue. Mean people rarely recognize why they are being excluded. If they knew, they would have never done the terrible deeds all along.

Anonymous said...

My daughter and I have come to a tragic end to our once loving relation. She is now twenty five, refuses to try and make it on her own, has for the past few years continued to lie and steal from her mother and I and has become verbally and physically violent to us. I have tried to get her some help and she continually refuses then proceeds to yell and scream at us trying to make us feel that we are the problem. One of the things that has brought me to the decision of disinheriting her is that after we discovered that she had been stealing from us we found that she had in fact been pawning all of her jewelry and other gifts that she had been given over the years as well as selling things of ours that had been handed down from mine and my wife's family. When confronted through her yelling and screaming she said that nothing we had or things given to her meant anything so that is why she did it.. As for my decision to not leave her anything I am convinced she would continue to do the same and sell off any and all family heirlooms. I have sat down to write this just after another round of total disrespect from her which started over money. It seem that current job puts about $650.00 in her account every other Friday. On monday she had gone through the in tire amount an again taking things and demanding money from me to the point of becoming totally disrespectful and verbally abusive. I tell other family members of this and they ask if she is involved in drugs.... I honestly don't think so as I have tried to determine this for sometime and have found no evidence of this. So it has come down to this... I fear that if I don't take this action that if and when my wife and I pass all of the money we worked so hard for over the years and all of or precious and cherished belongings will be just taken by her squandered ..... What do you guys think..... It was great to just be able to get it out to gain some perspective......

jjray said...

To anonymous of 4-3, yours is not really a legal question. It appears you already know what action to take.

Anonymous said...

I can relate very well to your situation, (Anonymous with 25 year old daughter.)I have a large family but one of my children is selfish, rude, abusive and has us walking on eggshells all the time. it is heart wrenching to think that someone could have so little regard for the wonderful live you have given, and is so cruel and self centred, to the extent that she declares verbally and loudly that she wants us out of her life. She has had a privileged life, and really has spent far more of our resources than the others, due to needs and interests, but she demands more. She has also stolen from us and siblings. I cannot have her inherit what we have work endlessly hard for, when she refuses to work hard, and tries to cause chaos and hurt to her family constantly.I feel that she has taken her inheritance whilst we have lived, and she cannot continue to take from us, nor her siblings. Kindness costs nothing, but is rewarded, petty minded hurtful behaviour can't be rewarded. She wants us out of her life? She maybe very sorry for her cruel deference.

Anonymous said...

I was disinherited by my mother for leaving the church she felt was best
I am an active member of my own faith
My father died first
He left everything equally to all 7 children
Now my whole family is lost to me because they all took the money and forgot about me.

Anonymous said...

My father disinherited my sister and myself (children of his first marriage) when he married his second wife. He's now leaving everything, including a house bought with funds he inherited from my grandfather who died years before my father even met this woman, to her. He listed his new wife's 2 children as being of the same importance to him as his own (talk about slap in the face). He gave me the documents on my way to the airport after a lovely week-long visit with him, like "thanks for coming, great to see you, btw you're disinherited." He is a worthless, narcissistic scumbag that I now hate with a passion beyond knowing. I hope he burns in hell, right along with his new wife.

Parents, just a heads-up. If you disinherit your child, they will hate you so intensely it's guaranteed they will never want to see you or hear your scumbag name ever again.

Dakota57NM said...

Parents who consider disinheriting a child listen closely.

The effects of your efforts will create a divide between your offspring. The effect of that divide will go on for generations. Is it really worth it to know your grandchildred or great grandchildren will never have the opportunity to form extended family bonds? What a horrible thought, isn't it?
Perhaps consider stating the funds you plans to leave carry with it a requirement which a portion of their inheritance pays for such as getting counseling for a defined amount of time, drug counseling or attending college and maintaintaining a certain GPA until they have obtained a certain degree level of your choosing. Have their inheritance funds paid out in installments as long as their in compliance with the requirements you've set forth.

Also be very careful if a sibling, any sibling no matter how close you are to them, attempts to influence your opinion of any of your children.

Anonymous said...

Anonymous said...
My sister & I where disinherited. The last 5 yrs of my Mother's life we didn't speak. My older sister had twisted my Mother around her little finger and lied to her over and over. In the end my
Mother asked to see my sister & I. Right after my Mother died my father & older sister banded us from the wake andd funeral mass. My sister & I have nothing, no even any of our childhood pictures or any memorable items of my Mother's. Even a precious moment figurine or Lenox collectible that my sister or I gave her thought the last 30 yrs. Things weren't always bad. It's a sad thing to know she request us there in the end and we were treated like trash. If you are a parent take some advice Never hold inheritance over your kids head.

Anonymous said...

I was also disinherited due to favoritism in the family and as long as I live I don't want to see or hear from any of the remaining family members. I didn't even bother going to my parents funerals and have never visited their graves either. I am hurt that they did this to me and it has GREATLY affected my life.

Anonymous said...

My father has recently passed, his will is just now being sent to the family, there are 9 of us.

Two of my brothers and one sister have been left a few paltry dollars while the rest of us are left to share in the rest.

My fathers reasons for doing what he did are valid, however it still is not fair. It has been put forth that we all split it equally..only 2 of the remaing six agreed..it will not happen.

All I can say is..if you are disinherited, it is not the fault of your siblings...it is not their signature on the document. The only person that can answer questions is gone..perhaps you need to think about why you were written out. For my brothers it comes down to one left the family having no contact with us for 10 years and refused to answer my Moms dying phone calls..then had no contact with our father after mom died..for the other it is alcoholism..my father does not want to be the case of beer that kills his son. For my sister, she stole money frmm my parents for years and manipulated my mother into giving her thousands of dollars..Dad figured she had had her inheritance.

Even though these are valid reasons..I still believe that we should split the money..what happened happened no one can change that, I know there is going to be some hurtful words said and although we have never been a particularily close family this will rip it even further apart.

B. Smith said...

Much thought should be giving before you disinherit a child . This results can cause a problems between sibling that can go on for generations.

Anonymous said...

hello I have been disinherited too. what a surprise .. I worked all my life and I have 2 more years to go while my greedy only sister is rich. I will find out some day when I pass but I plan to get over this and be grateful I have the mental capacity to move on and realize it wasn't me I have some realy mentally sick people in my family who should have gotten help a long time ago god be with you doris..........

Anonymous said...

how can a lawyer, selected by dad's neighbors, draft a will disinheriting me his daughter and no mention of his son, my brother who died 20 years ago. My name was misspelled on the will. The will has been probated, he died in feb and some of my dad's friends found my number and told me of his death on father's day. ??? Crooked friends, crooked lawyer??

Anonymous said...

My mother has already distributed(given) property to my half sister and her 2 children and greatgrandchildren. Also she has left what property she has left to my nephew (half sisters oldest child). Now my mother has cancer and can not take care of herself 24 / 7. The ones who have inherited refuse to help. They havenot helped for 6 yrs now. The property was given in 2004, then they stopped doing or even visiting her since 2008. I alone am being her caregiver...thery refuse to help. I live next door to her but what I have I have worked and payed for. Nothing has been given to me or my children. I am starting to resent all of this. I am in my late 50's and my health (suppressed immune system) is not good. Mother refuses a nursing home and the rest refuse to help me. Can I legally somehow sue them for what they have done and are doing?

Unknown said...

It isn't too early to prepare a last will and testament. Accidents and sickness could come in by surprise. It would be easier for your bereaved family -- immediate or not -- to mourn for your loss without worrying about their future finances; a way to secure them financially.

Trudy Nearn @ GenerationsProbate

Unknown said...

I just had a Will drafted in Hawaii. Some States do not allow you to completely dis-inherit a child so you have to be specific in your will that the child you wish to disinherit is specifically named ti get the minimum amount that state law allows. If it'd really important to you try to arrange it so that you don't die in one of those States.

Unknown said...

My daughter has been nothing but cruel and selfish to my wife and me. My wife and I have specifically dis-inherited her in our will and have given EVERYTHING to our nephew. (HOUSE, CARS, LAND, BUSINESS, INVESTMENTS, STOCKS.... EVERYTHING!!! She will be devastated when this comes to pass but CARMA is a real bitch!

Anonymous said...

If it's really important to you to lash out and hurt your child from the grave, leaving them emotionally scarred with no where to go, than sure, do this. I hope you will be blessed in eternity for your compassion.

Anonymous said...

To the one who wrote mean people never would have done the things they did... This is a winner. I have been working since I am 12 years old. Essentially been on my own since I am 24. I am female! I have since married. My husband is clean as a whistle as well and works every day too. So you have the complete picture I have been marginalized by this man from day one since he has gotten married to this women. I have never been on drugs, never stolen, my crime was I did not like my fathers Second wife. This women broke up my fathers marriage to my mother. This is why I hated this women. My sister took on this women and called her mom. We lived with her and my father my father had custody. My mother was not on drugs she just could not handle my fathers abusive ways. That is why she left him. My sister and I are from the first marriage. My father was blind to this women because she had his son. My grandmother his mother had asked me how much I would need to go to school. It was never a discussion I had with her nor ever wanted to. The long and the short is she continued to ask, and said don't worry you will have it. A few months after her passing, my father asked me to come to his house to sign a document. This was with his wife present who happened to be a notary. Needless to say I strongly suspect it was an insurance policy. Recently this man ( My father) sent an email with his will the cover letter said he was not sharing it with anyone. It was addressed to my sister (we are from the first marriage) and my half brother he is from my fathers second marriage) leaving everything to my half brother and not much to me. when I say everything to give you an example my half brother he put through school, my half brother he bought a house for. NONE OF THESE things has he done for me. I have made my own way. My half brother is 14years younger. He is leaving everything to my half brother.....

Anonymous said...

I understand what some of you are saying but when you have a child who has always been there for you and has need and you have a child who has been abusive and squanders money and marries a man just like herself, I can not understand how you can not respect a parent's decision to give to the one child who is trying to do right. I plan to leave a letter to the child not receive anything and express my love but...explain why she has been written out. It really should be of no surprise to her.

Fiona said...

To the anonymous commenter with the abusive 25 year old daughter, you might want to let her know she has been disinherited as if she thinks she will inherit from you and your wife, she might decide to accelerate the process. If you get my drift.

Anonymous said...

To punish from the grave is a terrible legacy to leave. Favoritism can only cause problems which has happened in my family. Mu mother changed the trust that her and my dad made together and left way more to my daughter than my son I cannot tell you how hurtful this has been.

Anonymous said...

My daughter was adopted when she was two and was a pretty good child until as a preadolescent, she began lying and stealing, sometimes from friends and relatives. During adolescence, she experienced severe mental health problems and suicide attempts despite a great deal of therapy, then chemical dependency treatment. For years, I have no been able to leave my purse/ wallet where she has unsupervised access to it since she will steal money from it.

With a great deal of help from her parents, she graduatated from online school and I bought her a car.

Recently, she committed 14 episodes of credit card fraud as an adult with my card, another as an adult with her father's and 2 more as a minor. She didn't buy anything she actually needed - she is given a lot from both parents. She continues to lie about many issues and has expressed no remorse or penitence about what she's done.

I am not going to disinherit her, but am going to limit the amount of my estate she gets and limit the amount she receives at once, and only provide funds for if her children want to attend college. When breeches of trust have occurred in the past, I have distanced myself from her and she tells people how I walked out on her, and how cold and uncaring I am - but she never tells honestly about how she maliciously and selfishly she behaved, about the lies she tells.

I'm sure when this happens she'll talk about how mean her mother is and how could I do this?


Anonymous said...

The decedent has the lawful right, through a legal instrument, whether a Last Will and Testament, Trust Agreement, or by naming a beneficiary on the account, to delineate who he desires to receive his asset. Children are NOT entitled automatically to their parents' assets. They may WANT the asset,but have no legal claim to someone else's property if one of the aforementioned actions was taken. Many children mistakenly feel that "in fairness" they should inherit equally with other siblings. No such right exists nor should it. Many times, particularly, with elderly parents, siblings do not treat their parents equally in terms of respect, love, assistance, and contact. That parent has the RIGHT to weigh all factors and bequeath the asset to that loved one he chooses. Remember, you may WANT your parent's stuff, but have no legal right to receive it if that parent executed a document that states otherwise.

Unknown said...

There are sometimes extenuating circumstances when a parent makes the decision to disinterest a child. One of them is estrangement brought on by the child's continual mistreatment of the parent by the child, lies told by the child to hurt and humiliate the parent, and irrational behavior by the child continuing over a period of years.
This child has made it pretty evident that they no longer wish to be part of their family and so forfeit any rights to their parent's estate,however large or small.

Anonymous said...

I also was disinherited by my parents. Not because I was a bad daughter but because I have a sister who is malicious and lies about everything. I gave up a large part of my life for my parents, saved my mothers life twice, saved my father from a debilitating disease, put up with their alcoholism, rebuilt their business, remodeled their home, stood by while they ran around with other people, and listened to them complain about my spouse. I loved them beyond measure and it broke my heart when they decided I was not beneficial to them anymore because I started standing up for myself. I don't care if I ever got anything but the only thing I wanted was something they would not do and that was to tell my sister the truth and quit letting her get away with all the horrible things she does to people. They wouldn't do it because they said it bad them look bad to her so now they are dead and I am a horrible person in my family's eyes. Now I am on the reverse side in that I have a son who is very troubling. I love him to death but his mental problems are such that an inheritance would only make it worse. My other son has been addicted to drugs and my thoughts are that my adoptive family will inherit some of my estate and my daughter the rest. She is young and my adoptive sister will make sure she is taken care of and loved as though I were still alive. When I say adoptive sister she is in fact only my best friend but seems far more. I will leave my one son a ring he has always loved and the other will be given a letter explaining my decision to cut him out so he will know exactly why. When a parent walks out on a child no matter how old it is differs from the child walking out on the parent. My parents chose to walk, my son walked out on me. If he called me today I would tell him again how much I love him but his mentality is not there. My heart breaks for what could have been and what should be now.

Unknown said...

My little sister claims she knows how-to goggle---here's hoping she Google search this!
She refused to speak to me or correspond with me for the last 10 years.
We're talking a small estate less-than $350,000. My parents' house is their crown jewel in a backwater state ($170,000 tops.) I already told her I'd like to see her keep their house. That's not enough to, she wants it all.
I won't call myself rich but I've got the funds to hold my own. I'm going to penetrate mom's will based on accidental disinheritance.
If my sis wants anything caught in mom's will she can bid on it---

To all those out there in cyber-space what share my plight: the wound linking does subside and give way to cold-harsh matter-of-fastness
Also, I have noticed about Suz-e-q; her motives are beyond greed. She has a serious personality disorder. And, no matter how hard she tries, she won't ever be in my league.

Unknown said...

I was raised with my mother and father but he had a previous marriage and a daughter. The daughter, my half sister and father were estranged for many years. She moved upon my father's retiring to live near him and now she has managed to have him sign over the title of his home to her. I get nothing. She began "brain washing" for many years to make him feel guilty for leaving her and her mother. She plays the victim and my father sides with her because I try to point out how manipulative she is and how I do not want anything to do with her.

Anonymous said...

My mother and father had a terrible marriage. After my brother and I were adults,(late thirties) my parents got a divorce. They had been together since high school. They divorced in their sixties. My mom left my dad in the middle of the night. She had been secretly moving her personal belongings out each night as he slept. The day after he had back surgery, she left him all drugged up to run to the store and never came back. I had just given birth to my only son the week before and called the house to ask her a question and my dad informed me that she was gone. I could hardly walk myself but I drove ten hours with an infant to help him. Turns out she was living with an old friend of mine from college that my dad and I had helped out a couple years prior. He had called me one night and said he was in serious trouble with drugs and alcohol and wondered if I could help him out. My dad offered him a job and sold him a van that he could pay for when he was up and running. He also built him an apartment in his shop. I figured this is where my mom went because she had no job or money. I drove past there late at night and there she was. This guy was 20 years younger than her and I didn't think this was romantic. Time went by and the two of them continued to live in my fathers shop apartment. My dad moved out of the shop and let them stay there and pick up the rent. A few years later, my mother was in a car accident. She got a decent settlement which was good because her and her boyfriend were six months behind on their rent and both were unemployed. They bought a house and a couple of cars for cash. Soon later she died and left everything to him in the will. He is now an alcoholic and back on drugs. He also owes $100k in back child support. Everything is still in her name. We don't know what to do. This just happened months ago.

Anonymous said...

My mother and father had a terrible marriage. After my brother and I were adults,(late thirties) my parents got a divorce. They had been together since high school. They divorced in their sixties. My mom left my dad in the middle of the night. She had been secretly moving her personal belongings out each night as he slept. The day after he had back surgery, she left him all drugged up to run to the store and never came back. I had just given birth to my only son the week before and called the house to ask her a question and my dad informed me that she was gone. I could hardly walk myself but I drove ten hours with an infant to help him. Turns out she was living with an old friend of mine from college that my dad and I had helped out a couple years prior. He had called me one night and said he was in serious trouble with drugs and alcohol and wondered if I could help him out. My dad offered him a job and sold him a van that he could pay for when he was up and running. He also built him an apartment in his shop. I figured this is where my mom went because she had no job or money. I drove past there late at night and there she was. This guy was 20 years younger than her and I didn't think this was romantic. Time went by and the two of them continued to live in my fathers shop apartment. My dad moved out of the shop and let them stay there and pick up the rent. A few years later, my mother was in a car accident. She got a decent settlement which was good because her and her boyfriend were six months behind on their rent and both were unemployed. They bought a house and a couple of cars for cash. Soon later she died and left everything to him in the will. He is now an alcoholic and back on drugs. He also owes $100k in back child support. Everything is still in her name. We don't know what to do. This just happened months ago.

Anonymous said...

My narcissistic mother let me do ALL the heavy lifting for my dying father over 6 months including saving her money for hospital stays, my siblings never helped or showed up even for my dying father and I took on all my mother's POA duties with him. Then before my mother passed, she asked me to do everything for her: all health appt's, hair appts. optometrist appts. getting clothes for her, getting a tax credit, visiting with her for hours every week, "but" she named my siblings as "primary caretakers." I saved her life by calling an ambulance twice for her. But she was determined to punish me for marrying a man she didn't like (or just marrying anyone)--I am disabled also with FM but she used me for whatever she needed. She gave plenty of money to my siblings for a cottage and mortgages, and then in one phone call, I said I could not visit because my husband was in intensive care in critical condition, she attacked me so harshly and insulted me so badly I stopped going unless she would call, which she did not. Then when I finally called her 3 months later she accused me of abandoning her and said I was "no longer her daughter." I found out she engaged in a smear campaign and wrote letters saying I was a drug addict and crazy. I held her to account and made her sign an apology for this. After that when she had to go to the hospital (don't know why, she blocked information to me in the hospital), she did not tell me the retirement home where she had moved into and my siblings refused to tell me also. When I finally found out through relatives where she was, I sent letters and phoned but she ignored these calls. She sold her house and let my siblings take all the valuables and dispose of everything else in a dumpster. Then she made a Will where I got 5% of her estate and the remainder split between my two siblings to the tune of $300,000 each PLUS all her valuables. She was a narcissistic manipulator who didn't like when I called her out on her bad treatment of my father (she discarded him when he was dying of cancer and refused to even pay $20 for his diabetic foot care), and had a very good reason not to visit her, she, in essence, showed her unreasonable vindictiveness by giving me virtually nothing from her Estate. My getting nothing was totally about her evil personality and her desire to indicate my ranking in the family through her Will. She was twisted and loved to manipulate and do covert things to get even. I can't even begin to tell you how awful it is to be treated like this by your own mother and there is not a thing I can do about it. I saw a therapist who said she is "profoundly emotionally abusive" and I was actually advised to stay away from her as she was so toxic, even if that might mean she would punish me in her Will. And she did. It is sickening how she used me and discarded me in true narcissistic fashion, and then claimed I did not appreciate that she had "clothed and fed me as a child." Well thank you so much for not letting me run naked and starve--I thought that having a child meant you have to do the basics like feeding and clothing him or her. What a nightmare. AND she also said that I "only went to see my dying father in the hospital because I enjoyed seeing him suffer and die." I bet my story outdoes any other on this website about an abusive mother and her Will. So please everyone out there, don't assume a child who is disinherited is the mean one who didn't "do for the parent." In this case, it was my mother who was incredibly mean and abusive.

Unknown said...

Disinheriting a child is wrong. Period. You give all children equal amounts and if they kill themselves with the money (as in drugs or something) then so be it. You did what YOU are supposed to do. I have a half brother that has turned my Mother against me and in the meantime getting his name on everything she has. He already just got a million dollar law suit from the railroad (and in all truth, he was never hurt from the railroad)and he doesn't want ANYONE to know he received this as he is embarrassed about it. I also know some very damaging things about him that I could reveal to his wife that would probably result in a divorce and I probably won't use it. It will depend on the will after my Mother passes IF I outlive her. I have lost 2 siblings age 40 and 60 so that is a very big IF. My mother idolized this half brother, being her first born and his daddy absconded when he was only 5. My daddy, who was precious, raised him as he did us all. We raised HIS children too but my Mother has lived through my half brother with her first husband, brothers dad that split and never heard of again...My Mother thinks he is the braniac of the family because he has stolen most of what he has. IF a Mother loves one child MORE than the others, something is wrong with her. I have 2 children and I love them the same. They are very different children but they are both entitled equally to anything I have left, if anything. I don't want them to hate each other after I'm gone. I don't want to be the reason they can't tolerate life, have bitterness and I don't ever want one to think that having money from a law suit is prospering. We are leaving this earth with anything materialistic but I'm telling you Mothers now...if you have a child that is not as precious to you as the others, then you probably caused it. Not making one responsible for their actions starting at a young age can make one turn out bad. Picking up the pieces for any child can be detrimental to them. My brother has been a dog to his current wife (and he's had many) and she has stayed because of the money.
Mothers: Be fair to ALL your children! You produced them and you chose your sperm donor too. Who's fault is it?

Shamim Khaliq said...

my parents were never there for me in life. i want nothing to do with them. i definitely don't want their money and i've said so. is there any way to force disinheritance? if i get anything, i'm giving it away

Unknown said...

I feel for each & every one who has been disinherited by parents. I have been a victim too. After my folks had passed, I was told the same. Iwas outraged, hurt, & suicidal. I had a good relationship with my parents. It was an older brother whom hated me from day one that manipulated my parents my two sisters to turn on me by lying and along with large amounts of cbd and isolation, succeeded. My sisters have since apologised for taking my brothers side. I will see the day carma comes to take him and his rodent child to answer for thier sins.

Lily said...

Maybe you should take a good look at yourself and your wife to find out why your daughter treated you the way she did. I’m sure you played some part in it. From my perspective after reading your blog you sound like a real bastard.