My wife's natural father is very sick. Her relationship with him sadly was distant by his choice. He has been remarried for 14 years or so. The issue is my wife does not feel comfortable asking his spouse if the father has a will. What occurs if he passes away and nothing is said about a will. This is an uncomfortable situation at a very difficult time. Before slipping into an unconscious state the father showed great regret for his choices towards his daughter. Henry, Kentucky.Your wife's situation is common in cases where the parent remarries. The problem is often compounded by (a) distrust between the new spouse and the children of the prior relationship and (b) a financial disincentive on the part of the new spouse to produce a will if one exists bequeathing part of the estate to others. I think it's vital that your wife ask her father whether or not he has a last will (and, also, whether she is a beneficiary) before he passes away. Perhaps he is too ill to respond at this point.
Most states have a law in their probate code compelling persons in possession of the last will of a decedent to file it with the probate court after the death of the maker of the will. A quick check of the Kentucky probate code found no such statute, however, there is a Kentucky law stating that the court, "on being informed that a person has in his custody the will of a testator, may summon him, and, by proper process, compel him to produce it." Kentucky Stat. §394.160. When the father passes away, if there is no communication from the surviving spouse, check with the clerk's office for the probate court for the county in which the father resided at the time of his death. If a will was presented for probate, that is where it would be filed. If no will is filed, I think you need some sort of information about the existence of a will and who most likely possesses it in order to seek a court order compelling production of the will.
I frequently receive questions regarding the effect of divorce upon a last will. Most states have a provision in their probate code invalidating bequests to former spouses under certain circumstances. Below are samples from three states.
OK, take a deep breadth. We've all taken financial hits. The DJIA closed at 12,514 on January 12, 2007 and touched an intraday low of 7982 on November 13, 2008, a loss of 36% in less than two years. In these troubled times, you have many other issues to concern yourself with but another to put on the "to do" list is review your last will. Why? Falling net worth results in specific bequests (both charitable and otherwise) eating up an increased percentage of your estate. The assets of a probate estate are paid out in a specific order: (a) administrative expenses of the estate such as attorney fees, (b) debts of the estate such as taxes, (c) specific bequests, (d) the residuary of the estate. This means a loss in value comes out of the residuary of the estate first. Let's break down an example. In 2007 when he executed his last will, Joe had a net worth of $1.5 million. Let's assume Joe's 2007 last will has specific bequests as follows:
Those with minor children rightfully concern themselves with the many "what if's" should both of us die. The easy part is, in my mind, is executing a will nominating guardians for your children should both parents die. It may take the parents several hours of kibitzing in the kitchen to agree on the guardian but the mechanics of nominating a guardian are rather straightforward (a simple paragraph slipped into the last will of both parents). The more difficult planning issue concerns the financial welfare of the children should both parents die.
In terms of monetary value, the decedent's personal effects are of the least value yet often take up a substantial amount of planning time when creating a last will. What are personal effects? The general definition is personal or intimate belongings of an individual such as clothing, jewelry, mementos, personal papers, awards, photographs, and other similar items. As this definition can be slippery, I prefer to draft a definition of "personal effects" into the last will.
So you're not a wealthy human with gobs of earthly possessions tying you down in life. Still, you wish to have a somewhat simple last will in place to make things easier on your family / significant others when the inevitable occurs. What are the elements of a basic last will and testament?